{"id":1340,"date":"2013-03-06T12:21:52","date_gmt":"2013-03-06T09:21:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/?p=1340"},"modified":"2017-05-12T00:30:06","modified_gmt":"2017-05-11T21:30:06","slug":"gol-atmak-ya-da-hamaset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/?p=1340","title":{"rendered":"Gol atmak ya da hamaset"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. isim<\/i> Yi\u011fitlik, kahramanl\u0131k, cesaret
\n“Bir hamaset destan\u0131.<\/i>”
\n2. Dinleyenleri etkilemek veya heyecanland\u0131rmak amac\u0131yla yap\u0131lan abart\u0131l\u0131 anlat\u0131m (TDK)<\/p>\n

K\u0131sa yoldan zengin olmak, k\u0131sa yoldan \u015f\u00f6hret olmak, g\u00fcc\u00fc ya da ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 al\u0131n teriyle de\u011fil de \u00e7abuk ve zahmetsiz elde etmek… Kendisi i\u00e7in bir tak\u0131m hayalleri olan hemen herkesin g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir r\u00fcyad\u0131r. Hayal kurmak ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta mazur g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. \u00d6rne\u011fin orta\u00f6\u011frenim y\u0131llar\u0131nda. Zengin, iktidar sahibi ya da me\u015fhur biri olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hayal etmek \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in belki gereklidir de. Ne var ki ortal\u0131kta dola\u015fan ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6yk\u00fcleri \u00e7o\u011fumuzun \u00e7ocuk olarak kalmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yor, b\u00fcy\u00fcmemizi engelliyor. Bir ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fc duydu\u011funuzda ya da okudu\u011funuzda ba\u015far\u0131ya giden yol \u00e7o\u011fu kez \u00e7ok kolaym\u0131\u015f gibi anlat\u0131l\u0131r. Yenilen kaz\u0131klar, ihanetler, geri \u00e7evrilmeler, anlay\u0131\u015fs\u0131zl\u0131klar ve daha milyonlarca ac\u0131 verici tecr\u00fcbe o ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcne s\u0131\u011fmaz, s\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lsa bile bir ho\u015fluk ya da “naif an\u0131lar demeti” gibi ge\u00e7i\u015ftirilir. \u015eans her zaman g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcndedir. “F\u0131rsatlar\u0131 de\u011ferlendirme yetene\u011fi” hemen her zaman emek vermekten, ter d\u00f6kmekten daha \u00f6nemli g\u00f6sterilir. Ba\u015far\u0131 \u00f6yk\u00fclerinin alt\u0131nda, \u00f6rne\u011fin \u015f\u00f6yle tavsiyelere rastlanmaz: “yetene\u011finizi geli\u015ftirmek ve bir konuda iyi oldu\u011funuzu ba\u015fkalar\u0131na ispatlamak i\u00e7in y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hatta on y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131; sonu\u00e7 beklemeden, iltifat \u00f6vg\u00fc beklemeden, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanarak, hakarete u\u011frayarak, paras\u0131z kalarak, sevdiklerinizi \u00fczerek ge\u00e7irmeye haz\u0131r olun” Bir pop-star olmak istiyorsan\u0131z bile pop-star olma s\u00fcrecinizin bal-kaymak olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilemezsiniz. Birileri size bu ac\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ekmeden yeteneklisin ya da de\u011filsin de diyemez. Bir hayaliniz varsa uyan\u0131kl\u0131kla, \u00e7abuk ve kolay cevaplar alamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir durumdas\u0131n\u0131z demektir. Bedel \u00f6demeden ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 size kim \u00f6\u011frettiyse onu bulup hesap sormal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Muhtemelen size bunu \u00f6\u011freten yine kendinizsiniz. Pop-star olmay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131n kitlelere faydal\u0131 bir birey olmak istiyorsan\u0131z hem s\u00fcrecinizin hem de sonu\u00e7lar\u0131n g\u00f6z kama\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 zaferlerle dolu olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 garanti edemezsiniz. “Acaba yetenekli miyim?” diye kendi kendinize sordu\u011funuzda cevab\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u015fu soruda aray\u0131n: “Hi\u00e7 bir alk\u0131\u015f, kazan\u0131m, \u00f6d\u00fcl, ba\u015far\u0131 elde edemeden y\u0131llar, on y\u0131llar ge\u00e7irdi\u011fim halde hala ayn\u0131 hayalin pe\u015finde ko\u015fabilecek miyim?” Hobilerden de\u011fil ya\u015fam tarz\u0131n\u0131zdan bahsediyorum. K\u0131rk y\u0131l boyunca pul biriktirmeniz de\u011fil konu. M\u00fcteahhitlik yapabilece\u011finiz halde kitap yaz\u0131yorsan\u0131z, birinden birini tercih etme arefesindeyseniz…<\/p>\n

\"Modern<\/a>
Modern insana en \u00e7ok reklam\u0131 yap\u0131lan \u00fcr\u00fcn; ba\u015far\u0131!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Hamasi s\u00f6ylemleri ve gol atanlar\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fck\u00e7e sonu\u00e7lardan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey g\u00f6remeyen g\u00f6zlere sahip olabilirsiniz. Bir bebe\u011fin do\u011fmas\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp adam olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in annesinin aylarca, y\u0131llarca eziyet \u00e7ekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmezsiniz. Size g\u00f6re bebek do\u011facak ve hemen ba\u015far\u0131dan ba\u015far\u0131ya ko\u015fan bir Einstein olacakt\u0131r. Modern insana en \u00e7ok reklam\u0131 yap\u0131lan \u00fcr\u00fcn; ba\u015far\u0131… Bu yaz\u0131dan “ba\u015far\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr” dedi\u011fimi zannedenler de \u00e7\u0131kacakt\u0131r, ama tersine ben \u015funu s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum; ba\u015far\u0131 geldi\u011finde haz\u0131r olmayanlar i\u00e7in ba\u015far\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir. Haz\u0131r olman\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131 da ba\u015far\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcren s\u00fcre\u00e7te sakl\u0131. Gidilecek yer kadar yolculuk \u015fekli de \u00f6nemli. Kendi kalenizin \u00f6n\u00fcndeyken tek vuru\u015fla rakip kaleye gol atman\u0131n \u015f\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcleyicidir. Sizi bir star yapar. Fla\u015flar \u00fczerinizde patlar. Oturup \u015funu hesaplay\u0131n o halde: Y\u0131llar\u0131n\u0131 harcay\u0131p Messi olmak m\u0131 daha kolay yoksa o \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl vuru\u015fu yap\u0131p tek vuru\u015fla gol atmak m\u0131? Hangisi ger\u00e7ek ba\u015far\u0131d\u0131r? Hangisi sonu\u00e7tur hangisi s\u00fcre\u00e7tir?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1. isim Yi\u011fitlik, kahramanl\u0131k, cesaret “Bir hamaset destan\u0131.” 2. Dinleyenleri etkilemek veya heyecanland\u0131rmak amac\u0131yla yap\u0131lan abart\u0131l\u0131 anlat\u0131m (TDK) K\u0131sa yoldan zengin olmak, k\u0131sa yoldan \u015f\u00f6hret olmak, g\u00fcc\u00fc ya da ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 al\u0131n teriyle de\u011fil de \u00e7abuk ve zahmetsiz elde etmek… Kendisi i\u00e7in bir tak\u0131m hayalleri olan hemen herkesin g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir r\u00fcyad\u0131r. Hayal kurmak ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta mazur g\u00f6r\u00fclebilir. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[248],"tags":[109,110,111,113,112],"class_list":["post-1340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cesitli","tag-basari","tag-emek","tag-modern","tag-sans","tag-yetenek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1340","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1340"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1340\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1345,"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1340\/revisions\/1345"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gokhanyorgancigil.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}